You spend quite a bit of time in your head, do you not?  It can be quite tiring and frustrating there.  It is also a lonely place.  This is not the place one goes when you want
to hang out with friends.  The place of
connection is in the heart.  The heart is
an open, friendly, inviting place once you get to know it, but the only way to
know this is by spending more time there. 
It is by training and habit that you hang around the head so much.  Logic, logic, logic.  Does it not get boring after a while?  How about a little adventure?  How about a little warmth?  Travel down south where the climate changes.  There, in the heart it is always warm.  If you disagree, if you think that the heart
is a cold place, that is because you are thinking.  The heart is a feeling place.  If you cannot feel the love that is the heart’s
innate nature, you have walled off that warm place with the head.  The two are always connected.  To bring some of that warmth upward, tune in
to your heart and see how it feels.  The
heart has a mind of its own.  Allow it to
run the show for a while and you will find your whole life opening up.