Memories
are fragile things.  They come and they
go and they splinter and fall away as you grasp at them.  They are not the same from one person to the
next, are they?  “It did not happen
like that,” your partner says, and then you argue while others laugh.  What are memories, but tapping into the bank
of consciousness that exists at all times. 
They are not “stored” in a bank in your head, but in the sea
of consciousness, and you retrieve them and then reshape them according to your
belief system.  It is the same with
future events.  You shape them with your
thoughts and beliefs.  The more you do
so, the more clearly the pattern takes shape when it is “time” for
that future projection to take shape. 
All is consciousness, and there is only “now” as you tap into
that sea and create.  Enjoy yourself as
you do so.  And how do you do that if the
creation you have tapped into with others is less than pleasant?  By returning to the place of peace within
your heart and rising above the physical dimension to the dimension which
allows you to see the impermanence and illusory nature of the physical world.
Go there often.