When one with whom you commune does not see or think or act your
way, do not try to sway them.  Allow them
to be as they are.  It is not your task
to change anyone.  Don’t you have enough
of a challenge dealing with your own Little Voice?  Keep your outer voice to yourself when one
does not send as much love as you would like, and then you go ahead and send as
much love as you would like to that one. 
She or he may not change, but you will. 
You will soften, no longer rigidly requiring that things and people go
your way.  Oh, my.  Would that not be a relief?