Meet others where they are.  We are not speaking of a place, but a state of awareness … a level of growth … a level of awakening to the fact that you are all blended beings — a mixture of human nature and soul nature.  You would not speak to a newborn baby in the same way that you speak to a teenager or a college professor, is this not true?  The soul knows how to speak soul to soul to another.  Shift from being to being not from a place of superiority or righteousness or inferiority or unworthiness, but shifting levels to make the strongest possible heart connection.  This is your gift to others and to yourself so that you meet and enjoy each encounter rather than running away or not seeing eye to eye.  How to do this?  Simply set the intention that you will slide up and down the scale of awareness as needed by each situation, never forsaking the heart.  You will find this a most Joy-US practice.  You are so very loved.