You see a photograph or video of yourself.  What is the first thing you do?  You look for something to criticize.  Admit it, why don’t you?  In so doing, you are on your way to accepting your human self.  Your ancestors had to look for the bad berry amongst the good to survive.  This is built in to human nature.  The higher soul knows no comparisons, only love and the joy of being.  Just like a baby who has not yet learned to compare, but sees all with wonder and curiosity, can you look upon yourself the same way?  You are so very loved.  Now apply that self-same love a you gaze upon yourself.