And so, you have your contests and your competitions, and one always
wins and one loses.  This is how you
therefore see life, with winners and losers, as if one is good and the other
bad.  Would it not be wonderful if all
always came out on top? 

But you do!  All learn and grow
through competition.  Contests push you
humans to see how much you can create or how strong or flexible or talented is
the human body.  But in a competition,
with its inherent polarity, you usually place one at each end of the pole. 

You do yourselves a disservice when you label one end of the pole a
loser.  All are winners and become so when
they see the growth and enjoyment that has ensued simply from the
experience.  Are there not those who do
not stretch themselves at all for fear of so-called “losing”?
May you come to realize that all are winners.  May you learn to celebrate the game itself
and praise the so-called losers every bit as much as the so-called
winners.  In an illusory world, what
makes a winner or a loser is quite subjective, is it not? 
You are all winners, for you have chosen to play this game called life.