Do not berate yourself for not going along with the crowd. Do you now realize how many do so because they have learned that this is the route to approval? Always follow your heart and your instincts. If these lead you down a solo path, so be it. You are an individual. Does this fly in the face of oneness? Not at all. Have we not taught you repeatedly that you are an individual focus of the Source? Quite so. And so, if all of God’s creations did this or that merely to go along with the crowd, where would be the learning? Where would be the growth? These take place from those with the courage to step outside the box and be different.
Express your individuality. Be bold and adventurous. It is okay to think of the self every now and then instead of the group. Come from a place of love, and always you will make a good choice.