There are certain things those on the other side
will withhold from you.  Why do you think
that all should be known immediately? 
Each of you, whether here or in the hereafter is a soul—one aspect of
the Love that birthed you.  Each soul
exists to grow and evolve in becoming ever more bright like its Source.  If all were made known, where would be the growth? 

What can you learn from the frustration you feel at
not knowing all?  Why would others have
secrets or be unwilling to share?  It is
all part of the dance.  Every relationship
exists for a purpose.  Growth does not
end at the death of the physical body. 
You learn what will help you to evolve as you are meant to learn it,
whether through your own spiritual growth or that of those with whom you are in
relation.  Be patient with yourself and
others.  You are all works in progress.