Resonance is all-important.  Each of you plays your own unique tune.  When you meet another, you instantly know at
a soul level whether your combined tunes are in harmony or not.  If dissonant, you will want nothing to do
with the other.  If you must be in the
same space as another with whom you are not in resonance and find peace, you
can either change your tune or learn to tolerate dissonance by rising above
it.  Everything is energy including you.  Do you need to change your tune when clashing
with another, or is your tune already one of such great beauty and light that
others will start humming it?