Belief comes first.  Without
belief, little growth occurs.  When
something happens that goes against your belief system, then you must change,
and change is often uncomfortable.  Are
you willing to undergo a bit of change, to be a bit uncomfortable in order to grow?  Then open your mind a bit wider than before,
or better yet, a lot.  Allow in
possibilities beyond your wildest imaginings. 
Look how the mind wants to rebel as you entertain thoughts and images of
what until now you have considered fanciful. 
Allow those images to roll around in your mind and listen to the
arguments that arise.  Now ask how your
life would change if those possibilities became your experience.  There. 
You have planted the seeds of creation.