Polarity.  Opposites of one spectrum.  You can balk all you want at the opposites, yet the two are intimately connected.  Stuckness.  It keeps you from appreciating the learning opportunities in reconciling into oneness.  Spend a bit of time in the opposite experience, and if you cannot even imagine going there, why, you now understand the word “polarized.”  How does it feel to be rigid vs. flowing?  Perhaps you do not even recognize flowing, for it is the opposite end of rigid, do you see?  Step outside the box.  Roundness is synonymous with wholeness, and until you taste the spectrum of experiences, you are anything but … wholly you.