When one does not wish to feel grief, it often shows itself
in another form.  Grief is a powerful
emotion.  It boils inside and must come
out eventually.  If the one in pain refuses
to cry because the belief system says that crying is a weakness, then when the
boiling grief finally erupts, it will appear as anger or even rage.  There are many forms of grief from loss of any
kind.  Do not assume that one who appears
angry is necessarily so.  Treat all pain
with the same remedy:  a liberal dose of
the healing balm of love.  Grief is the
perceived loss of love in some form. 
Understand well:  Love never dies.