There is no
need to try so hard.  No need to
struggle.  When has trying ever gotten
you exactly what you wanted every time?  Yes,
of course you have had success from trying and from hard work, but that is
quite different from struggling.  Hard work
can be done with mental ease.  In that
way, hard work can be mentally effortless.

Surrender.  Become your own ally.  Know that you need not struggle, for you are
being helped and guided in every moment. 
Know that when you cry out, “Oh, God, why isn’t this working?!” that
your angst is a sign that you have not surrendered.  Know that one day you will see the big
picture and see how every moment was a lesson given to you by your choosing at
a higher level.  You will see then that
all struggling was in vain.  If you had surrendered
and realized that all was in perfect order, you would have learned the lesson
and grown in any case with far more ease.