You agreed to this … not to the pain, but to the
relationships which would bring your soul the most growth.  It is a fact of life as a human that some of
the greatest growth results from pain, but principally when you recognize the
pain as growth opportunities.  The way to
peace is always found through love. 
Where do you then end up?  In the
heart, at the very center of you.  This
place takes you to a state of neutrality, where you then can choose how you
will react when you step out of the center and back into the world of
opposites.

You knew it would not be easy when you came here,
but you did not come unarmed.  Use those
arms to embrace life, with all of its challenges and opportunities.