You are whole already.  You are complete.  Nothing is lacking in your basic essence as
spirit.  Picture a sphere filled with
love, filled to overflowing.  That is
you.  Relationships merely add a
different dimension.  You will appreciate
the play on words.  Relationships exist for you to realize your
fullness, your essence as love.  They are
not necessary for your completion.  They
only add to the joy of this awareness or detract from it for the lessons they bring.

Picture each of your relationships like a yin-yang
symbol.  There you are with the other,
dancing back and forth, seeking balance and harmony.  Where there is imbalance, there is a
lesson.  Is one of you giving more than
the other?  Is one of you giving less?  Then that relationship is out of
balance.  Ask yourself why, and there you
can see what the relationship has to teach you.