Never is there a time when you are not watched over like a baby playing with others while the parents look on.  You are not the first to go through this earthly experience.  Those who have gone before you have learned the ropes.  They know the challenges.  From their higher perspective, they send you insights and gently guide you as they are able, yet you must make your own choices.  Shift your focus when squabbles erupt, when the going gets tough.  Turn your pleas and your questions to these higher beings who want nothing more than for you to succeed in realizing how very loved and supported you are.  The guidance comes when you ask.  The love is always here.  The peace is present, if not obscured by ignorance of this Truth.  Find it, why don’t you?  You are so very loved.