A necklace is made of many beads.  Each is part of one whole.  Which is more beautiful?  A necklace in which each is exactly alike, or one with varied colors and shapes?  Perhaps the answer is both.  The way the beads are strung together is part of the fun, the creativity of making the necklace.  Do you see?  There is no right or wrong.  It is all according to preference, and each beholder is also unique. Right or wrong, good or bad … these are labels.  See the uniqueness and the sameness for what they are:  expressions of boundless possibilities, not jewels set in stone. 

You are so very loved.

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