Why do you flinch?  You flinch, for you fear pain or harm.  This is a reaction of the reptilian mind and
the ego.  It is a valuable protective
measure.  It is not necessary when the
flinching is born of fear of emotional harm. 
Nothing outside of yourself can harm you emotionally.  The only thing that can do that is your own thoughts
and interpretations.  Can you simply
relax and accept what is going on outside of yourself as part of the play, the
drama you are watching?  If so, then
there is no flinching, for it is difficult to flinch when totally relaxed and
at peace in the spirit.  That is your
permanent role.  When aligned with
Spirit, there is no fear and no form to do the flinching.  Ah. 
Doesn’t that feel better?