Let it stew for a while.  What does that mean?  You have several ingredients in the mix, and the result could come out in any number of ways, depending upon how things get mixed and how much or little heat you give to that stew.  Ah, are metaphors not the most perfect way to look at your life differently?  And that is what we recommend you do when you find yourself in a situation where you do not know what to do.  Stew?  No!  Look at your life differently.  Take the pot off the stove for a bit and just let it sit.  In that time of stepping away from the stove, remember that the stew and all the ingredients are there for a reason.  All have bubbled up from the same Source.  And that Source holds not only the full potential of any and all possibilities to emerge, but also the awareness of what is the best possible outcome.  Because all of those ingredients arise from the Source, this means that you in your parts and your entirety arise from that Source as well.  All arises from the zero point field, the field of pure Awareness, from Consciousness, the Sea of Love.  So, take the stew off the stove.  Dissolve back into the Source and simply rest … rest as that pure Awareness and see what bubbles up when the heat is turned off.  Ah, life.  Full of spice.