Self-centered.  It is a term that comes with the feeling that this is not such a good thing.  And this can be true when one runs roughshod over others in favor of the limited self.  Ego loves this, so remain aware of how it works to keep you feeling separate and superior.  Self-centered is not such a bad thing, however, when you shift the focus to the higher Self.  In this case we use the capital S as a way of pointing out that there are different points of view you can take:  you as the temporary interdependent self, flowing and dancing with all of the other selves projected from the one eternal Self, and you as this Self. You may not be able to know the fullness of this Self whilst projected into this earthly reality, but you can expand your awareness to this higher aspect and in so doing find yourself not so self-absorbed.  Merely pondering such shifts in perspective does wonders for your compassion and the flow of love. 

And trust us:  you are so very loved.

     

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