Why do you want that?  … whatever “that” is.  You have the idea that it will somehow help you, make you better, bring you pleasure.  Why do you not want that other thing?  For you somehow have the idea that that other thing will bring you pain, misfortune, displeasure.  Do you see the pull and push?  It is never-ending for the human.  This very wanting and not wanting is what brings you pain.  What if you were to want or not want anything?  Then you would rest in peace.  Ha!  We do not mean you would be dead, but for some of you the thought of not having “things” is as good as being dead.  Rest in peace for a while and see how it feels to simply be.  Do you not wish the same for those you think have died?  “Rest in peace” you say, for you know how challenging it can be to be human.  What is so challenging for the human is the constant wanting and not wanting.  Become aware of your thoughts and you will find that it is they who cause your pain.  Just be and you will rest in peace for as long as you choose, here and now.