When something happens repeatedly in your life, pay attention.  Ideally, you are paying attention to all of the connections around you, but the human is usually so wrapped up in the story-thoughts running around in the mind that they fail to notice their surroundings.  However, when something happens over and over, this is the Universe saying, “Enough lolly-gagging already.  Will you please notice this particular aspect of your story?”  And when you do, then what?  Why, the self-same helpers who drew this repetitious event to your attention are standing by to help you.  Pause, shift your awareness to a higher level than the story and ask, “What is this all about?  What do I need to learn from this?”  The answer(s) may surprise you.  Or not.  For the soul already knows the lesson.  It merely needs to filter into your human awareness.  And then it is up to you.  Make a change or continue meeting this event.  That is how it works.  You are so very loved.  Truly, you are.  Begin noticing things outside of the story and become more aware of love at the center of You.