Allow, allow, allow.  What does this mean?  When you dig in your heels, no matter the reason, life cannot flow.  You become stuck in a pattern of thoughts or actions, no matter how “saintly,” and growth does not occur.  Taking a strong position, even if you are sure it is “spiritual” or “correct” will always impede the flow of Life, because you now must defend it and are not open to change and other viewpoints.

All of Life is about growth of the soul, which requires change.  Even the soul is changing.  The only “thing” that never changes is the underlying Absolute, which few in human form experience.  When they do so, it is only for the briefest of ecstatic moments.  Until that moment of eternal bliss, relax.  Relax your standards, relax your belief systems, relax your jaw.  It is all okay.  All of it.  All is part of the great Tapestry of Life.