When another does not act the way you wish, just coast.  Drift in a state of being until the highest response and reaction comes to mind.  This is far better than lashing out or trying to coerce another to do things your way.  Perhaps your way seems better.  That is all well and good, but have you seen things from the other’s perspective?  Can you honor that?  Take that moment to pause before reacting.  Having created space, new responses will appear on the screen of your conscious awareness.  Living consciously instead of reacting unconsciously out of habit … This takes effort, but the results bring far more peace and joy.  You are so very loved.