Boundaries.  They are not always solid like a fence around a yard.  Yet, when you are told to have boundaries as a person, there is the tendency in the human to erect an energetic wall around the self.  One can have boundaries without walling off one’s love for others.  Let it flow, this most healing balm.  Allow it in from others and send it outward whilst still setting limits on how much you receive and give in other ways.  It is balance you seek, for you are already whole and oh so very loved.