Think back to your earliest days in school.  Was it not important to be liked, to be popular?  You banded together in groups, and there were those on the inside and those on the outside.  There was most definitely meaning given to each group, and those who were in each.  Have you left your childlike ways behind yet, or are you still concerned with being liked?  Of course, all beings wish to be loved, but what you failed to know as a child is that you are always loved, for you are love.  Now it is not so important to be on the inside of the “in” group, but to go within your own self and find the love that has always been there.  Once you find it, there is no more outside.  You are Love, itself, One of a kind.  It matters not at all how others feel about you, for ultimately there is only one Source extending itself onto the Playground.