Patience.  Can you make a flower grow any faster?  Perhaps by speaking to it lovingly, focusing your intention upon it, and giving it exactly the right amount of water, sunlight, and fertilizer.  You know these are the elements it needs to grow and that it will not do so without them.  Beyond that, the flower is on its own.  Or is it?  What makes the flower grow?  The same Source that birthed you.  Some things are beyond your control, and yet you suffer when things do not go along your timelines in exactly the way you want them to.  We cannot change your earthly rules, and yet, we do not suffer as we see you suffer.  We relax and know that you are growing.  We give you our love, we sprinkle you with the fertilizer of insights and guidance, and beyond that, we leave it to Source to flow through you as it will.  Control.  It is a slippery thing.  Patience is part and parcel of the process of Life.  You either have it or you do not depending upon whether you understand the process of life.