Actions do, indeed, speak louder than words.  Most of you hear words and launch directly
into your human programs.  They activate
the left-brain side most associated with logic and the ego.  Actions, however, speak to the right side of
the brain associated with feeling.  Your
words can say one thing and the body another, and your subconscious mind knows
this.  The soul knows this.  So, if you want to give a loved one a most
important message and you want them to truly hear it, do so through your
actions.  Trust us, they will be
noticed.  Perhaps not at the conscious
level, but by the soul, where it matters most. 
Repeat these actions and eventually your message will make its way to
the surface and you will have transformed the situation.