By not speaking of an issue that you or another are going through, are you sweeping it under a rug or denying its presence like a big pink elephant that stands in the space between you?  Possibly, if you are approaching the situation from your human awareness.  But if you shift focus and remain aware of you and the others involved in this situation—this drama—from your awareness as pure spirit, as twinkling lights, every one of you, then your deliberate choice to give no power to the human issue allows you to simply love all those involved—to be there for them as Love incarnate, and to allow their story to unfold for them as it will.  Be there and be the presence of love, giving no power to drama and stories and you will be doing far more good than getting caught up in the story yourself.