You are really just a puddle of water.  Did you know that?  We do not mean this literally, but certainly
you are not as solid as you seem.  Can
you allow yourself to melt into that puddle? 
What happens now in your liquefied state?  Why, now you can flow.  Where before you encountered obstacles, for
your bulk and solidness did not allow you to move ahead, now you flow easily
through the cracks, or around, or under, or even over, depending on how grand
of a puddle you choose to be.  Melt, my
friend, for all is not as hard as you make it out to be.