You lie on a beach and listen to the waves arriving one
after the other.  They lull you to a
place of peace and serenity.  You listen
to raucous music and it enervates you.  What
is the difference between the waves? 
Some you hear and see, some you merely hear, but all affect you.  Everything that you experience is a
wave.  Your very body gives out waves and
consists of waves.  Your every thought is
a wave.  Some lull you to a place of
peace, others enervate you.

Were your body to disintegrate, the real you would still
exist, as what?  Yes, as waves.  And how would you be felt then by those around
you?  Would you pacify or enervate,
please or irritate?  The more loving the
consciousness, the more refined the waves. 
This is the School of Life.  You
are here to learn to surf the waves, to play and cavort in them.  Refine your skill at making waves while you’re
at it and you will take with you a wave of great distinction.