Be impeccable with your word.  You have heard this before.  You always know your intention.  It arises from within, yet others will hear it based upon their history and their present.  Pause before you speak or write, and become one with the intended recipient of your words, written or spoken.  Will they be received in the manner with which you intend them to be received?  You may not know.  So, what to do?  Speak always from the heart, in which space there is peace and divine love.  Words that arise from the head oft times do not carry the same vibration as this heart-felt peace.  Need you be concerned about how others perceive your words?  Think of it thus:  There is no other.  There is only one, bubbling up as the many.  How would you speak to your best friend, yourself?    Enjoy the conversation.