Love one another.  Take the
attention off of the self and place it upon another.  Now take what you would like to feel from
that other and give that to them.  Do you
see?  You did not really need love from
them, for you already are that.  You have
it in abundance.  It is like your
money.  There is plenty of it to go
around in your world, but some hoard it, some spend lavishly, while others
experience lack.  If all realized that
Love is your very essence and distributed it freely, it would flow
equally.  For now, simply practice
allowing it to flow, with no expectation of return.  You will be amazed at the result.