There are two sides to every coin, just as there
are two sides to you.  We are not
speaking of the opposites such as good and bad, happy or sad.  Whilst in human form you have the aspect of
you that is spirit and the side that is human. 
Call them the soul and the ego, if you will.  The point of human existence is to master
focusing on the soul, exhibiting the soul’s chief characteristic of love.  The challenge in this game of heads or tails
is that the spirit side, which initially is prevalent when born, will become
hidden to you as a child.  Then it
becomes your task as you age to remember it … to identify with the soul aspects
by choice. 

Ah, there’s the rub.  In this game of heads or tails, ego or
spirit, which side is up is completely up to you.  Mastery of your emotions is one of the ways
you learn to exhibit the soul side more often. 
It is not a game of win or lose. 
It is all about the soul’s growth, but most humans continue to identify
with the human aspects, and so we will put it into human terms:  When one identifies more with the soul and
Love is face up, then everybody wins. 

Do you see how it works?  You are still human.  The ego aspect of you is always there and is
to be embraced if you are to experience wholeness, but choose to be “love side
up”—beating the odds of chance in this game called “being human”—and see what
happens.