What are you doing with your life?  Are you putting it to good use or merely
putting in time?  Do you know that it
matters not if you are “doing” and producing? 
Are you adding to your soul’s growth? 
That is the question.  When you
add to one aspect of Consciousness, you add to the Whole.  You cannot “waste time” by simply being.  You need not achieve anything in the human
sense.  There is no success or failure if
lessons have been learned and you take back a bit more love and awareness than
you brought with you or allowed another to do the same.  There. 
You may relax now and stop struggling.