Have you been loving enough?  Where are you focusing your love?  Is your focus on the self, on things of the material world, or on matters of the Spirit?  Do not berate yourself if you have been a bit human-focused of late.  You are, after all, a human, but it does take focus to remember that you are spirit first and foremost, love at your essence.  It is for this that we come:  to remind you … to give you these little nudges you call “coincidence” to let you know you are not alone. 
 
Find a way that suits you to remember who you are.  Find a method that causes you to stop in the middle of your self-focus and focus on the greater Self.  This will bring all else into greater focus as you remember that all that matters is that which never changes.