Holidays with missing friends.  You are supposed to give thanks.  You are surrounded by others who are celebrating, yet there feels as if there is a hole in your heart.  You are so very used to the physical presence of loved ones who have passed that their absence leaves an ache. Recognize this as a sign of how very connected you are at the heart and how very fortunate you are to have this connection … this love.  You will see them again, but it is not time.  You still have living and learning and loving yet ahead.  For now, fill that hole with loving, happy memories.  It is you who chooses how you feel.  Grief is part of the process, but you need not cling to it, nor wallow in it. If you could see your loved one over your shoulder, you would see them smiling and encouraging you to do the same.  They are only a thought away.  Be thankful for the family reunion you will enjoy again.  For now, you are joined by love forever.  May this thought bring a smile to your heart.

You are so very loved.