When you don’t know what to say, put yourself in the other’s situation.  What would you want someone to say to you?  Even if you have never been in such a situation, the soul knows how it feels to be loved and appreciated.  What would you say?  Flexibility of awareness is one of the keys to growing up spiritually.  Fixation on the self is a sign of spiritual immaturity.  The soul continually nudges you to move about, to get outside of the “me” story.  Find a new focus today.  Find a new way.  You will know exactly what to say.  You are so very loved.