Allow, allow, allow.  What does this mean?  When you dig in your heels, no matter the
reason, life cannot flow.  You become
stuck in a pattern of thoughts or actions, no matter how “saintly,” and growth
does not occur.  Taking a strong
position, even if you are sure it is “spiritual” or “correct” will always
impede the flow of Life, because you now must defend it and are not open to
change and other viewpoints.

All of Life is about growth of the soul, which requires
change.  Even the soul is changing.  The only “thing” that never changes is the
underlying Absolute, which few in human form experience.  When they do so, it is only for the briefest
of ecstatic moments.  Until that moment
of eternal bliss, relax.  Relax your
standards, relax your belief systems, relax your jaw.  It is all okay.  All of it. 
All is part of the great Tapestry of Life.