Yes, you can compare yourself to others, but what does it matter?  Are you content?  Do you feel that doing what others do is going to make you content?  Peace and contentment are not found outside the self.  They are found by finding the True Self.  It is here, right here, not in some race or competition or any human achievement.  Yes, those bring satisfaction, but satisfaction is not permanent.  Contentment is an underlying state of being that comes only when you know how to access pure Being.  Breathe slowly and deeply.  Set aside all thought.  You will not die.  You may grow restless until you realize Here You are and Here You have always been.  You are so very loved.