Victory … when one achieves a desired outcome.  There is usually great rejoicing, unless the victory came at the expense of another.  You celebrate your victories, your triumphs, pounding each other on the backs, but should all be celebrated?  What of the losers?  Does one ever stop to say, “I’m sorry that you did not also achieve victory?”  Competition leads to this division.  Cooperation leads to helping all sides to grow in some way, even when not all sides can come out on top.

In the spirit world, the ultimate goal is growth.  When one advances, this advances the growth of all.  There is no need to prove one’s might over another.  Victory for one is a victory for all.  We encourage you to step forward in time to a time when it will no longer matter who is right and who is wrong.  Imagine yourself in this environment here and now and behave accordingly.  That, in itself, is a victory.