You are not a victim.  Unless you choose to be.  Victim is a role.  There are any number of roles you can play whilst in a human suit.  Try them on.  Victim feels good for a while, but sometimes the costume becomes ill-fitting.  Which role suits you best?  The soul knows what you came here to do … to find freedom by no longer identifying with the role, so that ultimately you will need no costume.  As long as you wear armor, you are identified with the role.  Could there possibly be two aspects to you?  Two points of view?  Human AND soul?  Choose wisely from moment to moment.  Or not.  Ultimately, Love will prevail, but if peace and happiness is your goal here and now, then the choice to see with the eyes of the soul will be yours.

You are so very loved.