What are your priorities? 
When they are in order, everything will get done in perfect order.  “But I must do this or that!” you think.  When you hear yourself say these words, stop
and assess your priorities.  Is love and
connection at the top of the list? 
Perhaps that is love and connection with one you have forsaken for your
other priorities.  Perhaps that is love
and connection with yourself, who you have forsaken for the sake of
others.  The key is to stop and assess.  Your heart will tell you what to do.