“You push my buttons.”  What does
this mean?  You place blame upon another
for knowing exactly what it is that “makes you angry” or causes you upset.  Isn’t that interesting?

Buttons are programmed, and oh, so totally illusory.  They are not real at all, yet you have made
them so real that others know exactly how to get a reaction out of you.  Who is in control here?  You say that you do not want to give up free
will and be like a puppet on a string to God, yet look who you allow to push
your buttons and thus pull your strings.

No one outside of yourself actually causes you anger or makes you react
in any way other than your very choosing. 
You push all of those buttons yourself. 
It is a choice that becomes quite unconscious after a while.  You can program new buttons.  It is not without effort, but quite
worthwhile.  Or why not have no buttons
at all and surrender completely to your Source? 
You will find it far preferable to being prodded by all of those button
pushers.