Stand
your ground if you will, but which is more likely to survive the storm:  the tree which bends or the one that is
rigid?  Growth entails stretching and
bending.  You do not become a tall, wise
tree without bending quite a bit along the way. 
There is only one view when you remain rigid.  When you bend you see many sights on the way
down and back up.  Now you are free to
choose, having gained a bit of insight along the way.  With insight comes wisdom.  Why do you think they call it a “wise” old
tree?  It has done quite a bit of bending
along the way. 

Stand
your ground if you will, but be willing to bend.  There is no dishonor in this.  There is no shame.  The one who bends learns far more, is more
open, and receives the greatest gifts.