bear-1236446_640You make assumptions about what another is thinking, and if they are less than positive, then you allow those thoughts to “make” you miserable.  And what if that other did not have those thoughts at all?  Can you ever be certain of what goes on in another’s mind?  They may be so wrapped up in their own affairs that they were not focused on you.  But because you are wrapped up in your own affairs, you allow your assumptions to direct your emotions.  We merely wish to bring awareness to how the human mind works.  Expect the best of others, but realize you have no control over their thoughts.  You do, however, have control over your own, once you make them conscious.  Until then, the same unconscious programming will happily run your emotions.  Happily, you get to choose between unconscious and conscious thoughts.