How often do you turn to another for help?  Yes, they are here in your path for a reason, and perhaps they can assist you, but have you gone within and asked of Higher Consciousness first?   May this be the first place you turn when you have a question.  The highest answers come from the highest place.  You say you do not know how to ask?  Become still and centered on the breath and ask with deliberate intent, trusting that your question is being heard.  Then listen carefully in that moment of silent anticipation.  If nothing is heard before your thoughts flow back in, go about your business, but remain ever expectant, ever alert for Awareness to dawn.  This is how it works.  You are not alone, but trust, intention, asking, and openness to the myriad of ways in which the answers are given are the keys to a proper connection.

You are so very loved.