When you push upon a wall that will not budge, why do you keep pushing?  Pause now and answer this question.  Feel the frustration you experience as you push.  What is behind your actions and insistence?  “I want.  I need.  I am right.”  What happened to “we” and “us”?  What happened to wholeness?  As long as you are stuck in I-ness at the earthly level, that wall may very well remain there.  Hop in your hot air balloon and rise above the wall in your consciousness.  Do you see the whole picture now?  Perhaps you even see how your insistence and frustration dims your own light.  Blame no one.  Simply shift to the heart and try a different path, Love.