Did you know that the “I” within you is the same as within all others?  That “I” is here to shine, to experience, to be.  It is indivisible Consciousness, and where there is no division, this is love.  Why do you not see “I” in all others?  For you are seeing from the perspective of “i” and you are seeing all of the other little “i’s”.  The choice is yours.  You cannot make another recognize “I” within you both, but you can be the “I” simply by making higher choices and being the presence of Love.