You couple with another to learn how to reconcile duality with oneness. Picture your yin and yang symbol with black and white—two so very different colors, yet fitting together almost sensually, you might say. They mold the one into another like two very separate pieces of a puzzle, yet together perfectly forming the whole. You and your partner in relationships form this whole, but it is not always perfect, is it? That is because you are a work in progress. You fluctuate in resonance as you jockey for position within the puzzle. Will you fit equally, or will one try to take up more of the whole?
This push and pull is natural in the human world. The closer you come to fitting together, the easier your relationship becomes. How do you do this? You cannot force a square piece into a round “whole” let alone two pieces with rough edges. It is far easier when you relax and soften the edges.
If you are facing challenges in a relationship, lie together if you can, in a position like two spoons. This is the closest you can come in the physical world to the perfect fit of your yin and yang. Whilst in this position, surrender all thought and simply feel the wholeness. From this experience, clarity will emerge. “Do I stay or do I go?” The answer may surprise you. In either case, you will truly understand why God created partnerships.
As the love flows from duality to oneness, you can now extend that oneness to include all that is. As above, so below. Quite a beautiful system.